Beautiful People

The title of this article probably allows your thoughts to immediately travel to a person who, to you, is attractive and appealing- someone you feel has pleasing features and good looks. You are thinking of the outward appearance of that individual because that is what we see initially when we meet or greet someone – it’s only natural we would focus on their exterior presence – and most often, we refer to a woman in this context. But the interesting thing is that what one person considers beautiful could be different from what another person thinks is beautiful. Remember that old saying: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder? It is certainly a truth, as we each see beauty differently according to our standards. But there is a general perception, a “standard,” so to speak, that society adheres to as well.

Beautiful People

We know that the world, and probably most if not all of you reading this right now, feel how you look is important. It’s probably important enough that you make sure to get your hair cut and shampoo it regularly, shop for the perfect clothing for you, and purchase beauty and skincare products to look and smell your best, even if you pay attention to only the basics. Some people go a little further in their beauty regimen with things like facials, body wraps, manicures, and more. Many people spend a lot on bath and body products to feel and look good and fight aging. And why shouldn’t we? And others spend a great deal of money on their attire – all for appearance.

Our physical body is an incredible gift, and with it, we have been given the responsibility to take care of it. People have different views because we are all unique beings with beliefs and truths. This is why it is tough to set an accurate “standard” for what is beautiful and who fits that description. Haven’t you watched a beauty competition at some time in your life and wondered how one of the contestants is considered attractive because you do not see it? Again, that’s the uniqueness of each person’s perception.


Here’s an example of the perception of beauty. You know what the dandelion plant looks like, I feel sure. It crops up all over the place, and when it appears on your lawn, you do what you need to do to get rid of it because it is commonly known as a pesky weed. It does have an attractive yellow flower, but the plant itself isn’t exactly what we’d term a beautiful plant, and you know you don’t want it spreading throughout your lawn. But let’s look further into the dandelion. It has some wonderful qualities. It is loaded with all kinds of vitamins and minerals, and it has been said that if this is all you have to eat, it could sustain your life for a long time. The dandelion herb or tea can assist in detoxing your body’s liver and other organs and has been known to alleviate many skin conditions when applied topically. So, we see that beauty isn’t always what you can visibly recognize.

As humans, we have often become conditioned to focus on the negative, so we tend to focus on what we believe is a negative aspect of an individual – maybe a big nose, beady eyes, or perhaps a scar. If we’re slim people, we might think heavier people are unattractive, whereas chunkier may think skinny people are ugly. Again, it’s the perception of each individual that creates the ideal for beauty.

We also know that as one ages, things change. Wrinkles and sagging skin appear, and bodies change. Hair may thin or disappear; the beauty of youth has faded. It is often disconcerting for mature adults to feel their appeal and beauty have faded. So, let’s look a little deeper into real beauty.

According to Webster, beauty is a quality attributed to whatever pleases or satisfies the senses or mind. This can reference color, texture, motion, tone, looks, features, rates, or high degrees of fineness. Synonyms that correlate to beauty are attractive, lovely, comely, elegant, glamorous, radiant, charming, pretty, good-looking, and stunning. Let’s go to the deeper level of beauty. We find synonyms like valuable, has merit, warm, kind, worthwhile, wonderful, splendid, superb, etc., so it seems beauty encompasses more than merely the outward looks of an individual.

I’ve known many beautiful individuals in my life, and I imagine you have people who shine with love and kindness that radiates out to you with an open invitation to enter their lives and hearts. This could be your spouse or partner, a friend, children or parents, a colleague, or just about anyone. These people attract others to them because they have a beautiful energy that exudes outward. We like to be in the presence of these individuals because they lift our spirits and make us feel good.

So basically, we see that true beauty comes from a heart that operates from love, for love radiates kindness, appreciation, acceptance, compassion, understanding, forgiveness, patience, respect, and any expression that uplifts and encourages us. Our spirit gravitates to such a person because this is from love, and love is a higher energy that raises us. Remember that your essence is love – you came from love but forgot it once you entered this life and accepted the world’s base of fear. So it is only natural that your spirit craves a return to being in the presence of love with loving experiences and people.

The message here is to look beyond the outward appearance for true beauty. External beauty can easily fade and change due to the aging process or unexpected experiences, but a person’s internal beauty remains even through mature years and unforeseen circumstances. When you remember someone, it’s their kindness, caring, or expressions of love (or lack thereof) that you recognize much more than whether their face is beautiful. Additionally, the loving spirit of those you remember or presently know radiates through their being so that their outward appearance seems more attractive.

Look inside of you right now to see what is most important by your standards. Do you focus on simply the outward appearance, or do you see the real beauty of an individual? What do others see in you? Do you radiate love to everyone in your life? Will that be what they remember about you? We all have incredible value and worth, many aspects of beauty, and the potential to share love. All it takes is for us to open our eyes to see it! Are you one of the Beautiful People?


Alcohol scholar. Bacon fan. Internetaholic. Beer geek. Thinker. Coffee advocate. Reader. Have a strong interest in consulting about teddy bears in Nigeria. Spent 2001-2004 promoting glue in Pensacola, FL. My current pet project is testing the market for salsa in Las Vegas, NV. In 2008 I was getting to know birdhouses worldwide. Spent 2002-2008 buying and selling easy-bake-ovens in Bethesda, MD. Spent 2002-2009 marketing country music in the financial sector.